Inspired by stories from the aftermath of director Mark Rosenblatt’s own family’s Holocaust survival, the award-winning and Oscar-qualified short film GANEF (2020) explores, through the tiniest of domestic details, the subtle and complicated impact of trauma on the next generation. The film, set in London in 1962, centers on a little girl, spooked by a dark tale from her mother’s Holocaust past, who starts to believe her adored cleaner is a thief. It stars Lydia Wilson, Izabella Dziewanska, and Downton Abbey’s Sophie McShera.

A post-screening discussion with the team behind the film was moderated by Dr. Irit Felsen, a clinical psychologist with extensive experience working with Holocaust survivors and their families.

Watch the film here via the streaming platform Omeleto. It will remain available until December 16, 2021. 

Watch the discussion below.

This program’s original recording transcript is below. This transcription was created automatically during a live program so may contain inaccurate transcriptions of some words.

Irit Felsen: So I watched this film before, as you know, and still I find it so utterly utterly captivating and such an immersive experience.

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Irit Felsen: it's a beautiful film.

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Irit Felsen: And it captures so brilliantly some of the nuanced and and complex ways in which, in which all kinds of things are transmitted in the daily interactions and family life, from generation to generation.

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Irit Felsen: So I wanted to first of all congratulate you for such a beautiful beautiful accomplishment and to ask you, you know we see an empirical research.

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Irit Felsen: That there is still transmission to the third generation, but the transmission is different, its manifestations are different.

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Irit Felsen: And I guess that's what our conversation we'll talk we'll touch upon this way or another, but can you first tell us a little bit about your own families your own histories and what brought you to be.

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Irit Felsen: interested and when did it start your interest in the experience of your parents, the second generation for this movie is about actually the Second Generation Students.

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Irit Felsen: ruthie is a is a is a second generation and her parents are somewhere in the 60s right, not that long after the end of World War Two please whoever wants to start.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Thank you area as well, thank you for, for your kind words and I really appreciate it, and thanks for I mean it means a lot, because your your work is so deeply about this that it's hugely validating to hear you respond so strongly to it um.

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Mark Rosenblatt: yeah I mean I grew up, and I mean I mean i'm British I grew up Jewish in the 80s in suburban North London and I guess the trauma of the Holocaust was never far from view in my family, and I might my my ground particular my my mother's side.

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Mark Rosenblatt: My my grandmother was born in frankfort like misses her and she she thankfully wasn't in the camps, but she was on the run for most of the war as a sort of young as a goal and.

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Mark Rosenblatt: trump migrated all over Europe to answer to the south of France over the mountains into Italy and ended up in the in Rome pretending to be a Catholic.

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Mark Rosenblatt: In a Convent where a couple of nuns knew her true identity, so you know I began to absorb those stories around the Friday night table from a woman who you know, really.

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Mark Rosenblatt: didn't feel that this was a story worth telling I mean it, you know the kind of.

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Mark Rosenblatt: The kind of story, that is, you know beyond beyond anything that any of us, thankfully, may have to go through to her felt like.

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Mark Rosenblatt: You know, and nothing oh don't ask me about our you know and i'm sure other people have heard that that sense that there's three is somehow.

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Mark Rosenblatt: It I later I guess realize that that was the low self esteem in a way the tinge that the her sense of low self esteem that came from the war was almost an expression of her survival.

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Mark Rosenblatt: But I also yeah for me growing up was also about the people that weren't there the missing great uncles and aunts and cousins people that I didn't know and we'll never know and.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And some of the stretton I guess some of the behavioral patterns, you know my grandmother, for instance, you know she she lived a very comfortable life and and and a very happy life, but she you know there were things that she brought.

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Mark Rosenblatt: With her like you know she would cross the road from a uniform from uniform to people, she would.

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Mark Rosenblatt: avoid certain things she didn't feel comfortable being in tax season, you know who knows how much of that was just her and how much of that came from from from before so.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And then, in the wider family, there were you know I have distinct memories as a child of seeing you know, a relative roll up our sleeves as a nice.

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Mark Rosenblatt: tea party at my parents house to pour some tea and see her her concentration camps or two, and these incongruities I think.

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Mark Rosenblatt: we're very striking at even as a young child that you know, and then you ask you connect the dots and you, you discover that that particular relative was in Auschwitz, and that she.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Was you know in selections to you know we found a photograph that very woman in selections that Mengele was undertaking and and you know these crazy juxtapositions of of of postwar.

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Mark Rosenblatt: settled life and the hell that people have gone through on across the spectrum of survival, so I don't know if i'm answering your question but that's what i'm absorbing growing up, and I, I think that that the film is in part and attempt to.

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Mark Rosenblatt: show that off them off in a in a in a in and to explore what life was like be you know the War did not end in 1945 the Holocaust did not end in 1945, but it was an ongoing process.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And yeah.

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Irit Felsen: I think that that is a fantastic answer.

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Irit Felsen: To my question mark because it's it's exactly.

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Irit Felsen: The way you say it.

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Irit Felsen: That thing that I speak about is the dual reality of the survivors.

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Irit Felsen: And the children in their lives, after the war for the survivors and for the children, obviously, for born after the words begin with yes, these two realities that continue to exist, all the time.

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Irit Felsen: The reality related to the trauma and the reality of the tea party, the Nice tea party it at the relatives beautiful home in northern London yes.

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Irit Felsen: Very different realities incongruent with one another, one in which there are inconceivable things that happened, and the one, and I think it's captured so poignant in that moment.

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Irit Felsen: When the mother, who is kind of.

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Irit Felsen: really not very emotionally available for the child in that moment, and really wants to go to sleep and finally does say the thing about the gun.

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Irit Felsen: And the girl goes is the gun of coming here and man's like, no, no, no, the income royalty of these two realities and how those fragments are transmitted and deposited in and shatter really the reality of the simple reality of the world if.

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Irit Felsen: She could have had one yeah.

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Irit Felsen: yeah sorry, what do you what you would want to share with us about your background and what brought you to make this film.

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Suri Ellerton: And yes, thank you um well my yeah my grandparents on my father's side were both Holocaust survivors my grandmother.

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Suri Ellerton: was one of eight children and grew up right outside of Auschwitz and five of those siblings died in the war and one of her baby nephew died her parents or grandparents, you know huge amounts of the family and.

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Suri Ellerton: I don't I honestly don't even remember the first time that I knew about these stories because it, it was just.

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Suri Ellerton: So much so part of our upbringing my middle name is Ruth my brother's middle name is Mendel and we knew we were.

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Suri Ellerton: named after these those that perished, and we didn't know every detail, but we knew that something terrible it happened to her, her and her family from very young.

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Suri Ellerton: But in terms of the details of what happened, she was very private about it and kept it really internally and and even my father growing up didn't know really what had happened to her.

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Suri Ellerton: What camp, she was in anything she really kept it to herself, and it was only when the third generation my generation had you know book reports so.

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Suri Ellerton: The Holocaust that we were you know where we were told go interview a survivor and you know my grandmother was a survivor so I I interviewed my grandmother.

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Suri Ellerton: Did she finally start telling us some of those details, you know, being in various camps being on death march to Auschwitz escaping and living in the woods.

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Suri Ellerton: You know she found that on the on the march house which they stopped for a night and there was a hole that she saw in the gate.

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Suri Ellerton: Where they were sleeping and she grabbed she wanted to grab her cousin who was too afraid to go.

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Suri Ellerton: So she ended up grabbing a stranger and the two girls, you know escaped and we're living in the woods and living, you know very difficult two years trying to survive.

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Suri Ellerton: And even I mean, even with that I know that there were so many details, I mean she's passed Now a few years ago, but.

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Suri Ellerton: That I still don't know because she just wasn't ever able to bring herself to.

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Suri Ellerton: Talk about them, and I remember, she was offered an opportunity, I think, to be part of spielberg's show our project, and she didn't want to do that, like she just really held it very close to her chest, and so.

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Suri Ellerton: You know my I know that she Mike Father says that he remembers her having nightmares and you know things like that, but her way of dealing with it was very much keeping it.

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Suri Ellerton: Inside so I actually really identified when I read the scripts that mark sent me I identified that kind of.

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Suri Ellerton: Take it in go to sleep, you know, take the pills whatever you know that that felt.

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Suri Ellerton: very much like my grandmother so and I guess in certain ways I actually also tend to avoid subjects Holocaust subjects, because it feels you know so painful for me.

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Suri Ellerton: And, and you know, seeing any anything to do with anti semitism any of that just really you know freaks me out because it just feels so close to home.

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Suri Ellerton: And, but when mark shared it with me and mark and I have had you know, had a good relationship before that I just said, you know this feels fitting, and I wanted to do it for her.

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Irit Felsen: yeah well it's it's truly remarkable.

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Irit Felsen: That that you did manage to do it, and it was well worth effort, the outcome definitely I hope justifies the pain.

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Irit Felsen: And I think that what you touch upon is a very important piece, you know my very good friend and and colleague.

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Irit Felsen: Dr Doreen loud passed away a few a couple of years ago was himself the child survivor and he has he he wrote a lot about his work with survivors and he said that this knowledge that we have, and now you say the knowledge that you have the third generation.

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Irit Felsen: it's not in information or knowledge we don't know when we started knowing it, we don't know.

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Irit Felsen: details and, in fact, as I often see in in clients and friends that I need people don't often know actually.

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Irit Felsen: Very important pieces of the facts and the timeline is all jumbled it's really not a historical information or knowledge, when we say we always knew like you said, we always knew that something terrible happened to her and to her family.

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Irit Felsen: it's really an experiential knowledge of something that goes through, and is being transmitted in these locks and I think mark, by the way the.

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Irit Felsen: The facial expressions of the woman who played misses her are remarkable in this way she really did a beautiful job.

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Irit Felsen: of transmitting a lot in the games in the turn of the head in the liberal expressions of the of the facial muscles, this is how it's transmitted it's not by facts or information about the whole of us and it's from the age of nothing remember the movie yes.

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Irit Felsen: So tell me a little bit more about what did it feel like for you to make this thing to try to communicate to the actress What was your experience was like and also.

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Irit Felsen: If you would like to say something about why you chose to focus on the second generation experience, rather than on your experience as the third generation.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Well yeah I mean I, I think that we, I mean it's set in obviously it's set in the 60s.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And we.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And it felt to me very important somehow to show a survivor as a young woman.

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Mark Rosenblatt: I think we are so.

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Mark Rosenblatt: used to seeing survivors as much all the people if it's all enough, you know and increasingly unfortunately not around anymore.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And and somehow, I think it in a way it lets us off the hook, because an older.

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Mark Rosenblatt: person feel makes a younger person feel well, this is a long time ago, but to see that felt an important image, a woman in her 30s with a tattoo on her arm.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And also, I think I was conscious that in order for this film dramatically to work for the cleaner the housekeeper to not know really not know what what what what this the context of this family was she it needed to be set before the time when survivors had begun to talk.

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Mark Rosenblatt: This is.

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Mark Rosenblatt: The time when, in the early 60s, I mean, I guess, things are starting to shift, because the human trial is, I think, just happened in the real world around this film, but the sense that society had not yet validated.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Or have not even really truly acknowledged what had happened to these people meant that those people were inhibited from speaking and and I became aware even researching it that in that period, even.

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Mark Rosenblatt: couples husbands and wives didn't he really had both I didn't really talk to each other about it, there was such a shame, even.

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Mark Rosenblatt: You know that you put it behind you and you know, in the context of a world where there's much less counseling available, you know a lot of those pieces felt important, so it needed to be set set then and.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Otherwise I think later sort of post in a way potion there's less people are you know my grandmother is sitting at the Friday night table and her story is being sort of teased from her by you know hung.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Extreme astounded grandchildren, who are wanting to know what on earth their grandmother what happened to her.

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Mark Rosenblatt: So yeah I thought I think that was very important times of the setting and and I guess also arrange.

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Mark Rosenblatt: That ruthie the little girl is not my mother and if she's watching she may be watching i'm not suggesting for a second, that is specifically her, but you know i'm very.

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Mark Rosenblatt: You know very well, for instance, with my mother that you know her commitment to she's been very committed to.

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Mark Rosenblatt: The memorial memorializing and commemorates commemorating actually you know you were talking about information being gathered.

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Mark Rosenblatt: In pieces and sometimes on chronologically when my mom is really pulled our family history together in real chronology and is constantly looking for.

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Mark Rosenblatt: The fragments and the the missing pieces of the jigsaw in in some ways, I think that desire is connected to move to memorial to Memorial, in a very in a very.

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Mark Rosenblatt: political sense like sheep my mother is very, very aware that there is a counter narrative that this did not happen or that in some ways, this is some crazy story told by.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Jews in X, you know quotation marks to have some you know, create some sort of get something, and so, actually, I think the pulling together of these stories, for her is a way of.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Fighting you know this happens is not just having into our family but it happening with the with with the I guess the.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Fortunately, not they're not being direct first generation survivors to say that we need, you know that information, why is that relevant ruthie i'm not entirely sure, but I I do sense in ruthie something just aware of how my mother may be.

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Mark Rosenblatt: You know, received that my mother as a second generation survivor you know entire life something and sort to counter it in some way through the work in her life.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And ruthie is very different, because she she her journey and the film is from love to.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Fear she she moves from physical connection to this woman that she loves this housekeepers she plays with to being locked in a cupboard unable to be touched by her and fearing her very movement.

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Mark Rosenblatt: And so, for roofing I think the journey of the film is really as, as I hope it's clear is is about the the impact of trauma on on on.

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Mark Rosenblatt: On people on relationships that it is constricting and that it is it you know it stops you connecting it's designed to divide you, you know um so anyway, those are sort of two long answers to questions I don't know if i've answered your question but.

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Irit Felsen: Well, and I think you make a question again beautifully because.

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Irit Felsen: First of all, starting with the last point you made is you know.

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Some of my colleagues.

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Irit Felsen: Smoking in slava from Israel spoke about the creation of the hostile world.

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Irit Felsen: split or world scenario, which is what you're.

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Irit Felsen: Talking about that it installs in.

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Irit Felsen: These insecurities and these these these suspicious expectations about what people are like people are like and it destroys the capacity.

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Irit Felsen: For that open hearted enjoy for connection that she had with the cleaner before.

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Irit Felsen: Right and then, of course.

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Irit Felsen: gets generalized.

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Irit Felsen: to other relationships, except the show that so beautifully in this particular diet of the girl, and the cleaner.

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Irit Felsen: Yes, I think it was brilliant.

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Irit Felsen: Actually, to go back to the survivors as young people.

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Irit Felsen: Because, even though there are some of these older movies that show survivors is young people like.

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Irit Felsen: sophie's choice and other ones, they were done a long time ago and for the generations growing up today.

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Irit Felsen: The survivors, or maybe these older people and, like you said that makes it a little bit too far.

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Irit Felsen: away it's easier for us to really grasp something when it's about people.

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Irit Felsen: Who are more our age.

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Irit Felsen: So it's very important that.

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Irit Felsen: You actually went back to people who are like your age.

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Irit Felsen: For the young people.

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Irit Felsen: Of today yeah and and the end before the cultural.

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Mark Rosenblatt: context changed.

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Irit Felsen: and made it so much more open, so you are also speaking about that.

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Irit Felsen: The importance.

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Irit Felsen: Of the attitudes in this in the wider social context to help people can.

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Irit Felsen: deal with a former so maybe sorry and you would like to speak a little bit about that I know that's very important.

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Mark Rosenblatt: To me.

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Irit Felsen: In terms of the impact of thing.

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Suri Ellerton: So the question is just about how it affects the wider world of trauma.

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Irit Felsen: So how the attitudes at what you would like actually to communicate through the movie with a film about the importance of the attitudes around the trauma survivors, the wider cultural context.

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Irit Felsen: To to help people can be without fall.

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Suri Ellerton: yeah and what we when we made the film, you know, obviously we have our own personal connection to World War Two in the Holocaust specifically.

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Suri Ellerton: But we really wanted to speak to a larger audience, who would understand trauma trauma is not unique to the Jewish people I mean we have a lot of it.

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Suri Ellerton: But it's not unique to us and and there are a lot of you know, different groups of people that have been through major traumas and actually it was funny when.

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Suri Ellerton: mark and I were opening up.

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Suri Ellerton: The production bank account, we had a a woman who was speaking to us, we were telling her about the film and she said Oh, my goodness, I you know she I can't remember what was her to remember what her background was mark.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Just choose from a Pakistan.

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Suri Ellerton: yeah yeah so she was just talking about her father and about how how this would really speak to her father and and the things that her family had been through so it, you know we always kind of had an eye towards that that wider world view of.

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Suri Ellerton: You know that trauma can affect anybody and and and the the impact of that over generations is is not small and I know, mark you had been speaking when we chatted before to read about how that might impact on politics and.

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Suri Ellerton: And and about decisions that world leaders make about you know we.

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Suri Ellerton: We have to think about the long term effects, not just you know that the immediate people that have been gone going through this trauma the effects continue on for generations, and that is something to be taken into consideration yeah.

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Mark Rosenblatt: Mark died, I mean.

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Mark Rosenblatt: I thought yeah I mean I I don't want to make any claim that this film is you know, seeking to correct great you know great things and terrible things in the world, but.

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Irit Felsen: Really yeah so as we have only three more minutes or so before we like to open it for questions and comments from the audience could each of you tell me what would you hope.

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Suri Ellerton: That our generation, one of the hallmarks is like the social justice and wanting it to you know wanting to put that forward and that it shouldn't happen to anyone else, and I do think you know, remembering our own history, making sure that other people remember our own history but also.

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Mark Rosenblatt: I think we just have to acknowledge that it's in us and and that it could we could transmit it, you know and and we just have to be mindful of what we're transmitting you know that it's not people don't consciously transmit it.

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Mark Rosenblatt: You know whether it's telling how we tell the story of if we you know observe, so you know at the seder, how do we frame that story.

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Suri Ellerton: I would love to hear from someone like you read before I do that, and you know and just hear what might be the best way to do that, because it is a really tricky thing to do we want to keep the generations remembering but also yeah not be passing down such trauma that.

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Irit Felsen: And that is why these conversations on the public arena in various ways are so important because survivors cannot just by being aware of the trauma contain it, they need to process it, they need the support of the environment around it.

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Irit Felsen: So thank you so very, very much for this jewel of the movie over failing and let's open it up to the audience comments Thank you so much.

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Ari Goldstein: The audience comments on the scene of ruthie in her room surrounded by toys and says, perhaps her mother gives you all those towards because she knows, she can be there for her enough it is that what you guys were going for that sense of overcompensation.

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Suri Ellerton: We had very few hours, we were legally allowed to work with her so.

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Ari Goldstein: I know that there's some audience Members who missed the film at the beginning, or would like to watch it again, what are your plans for wider distribution and where can people see it.

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Suri Ellerton: And it's great question we're going to be up on a platform called a mulatto maybe we can write it somewhere in.

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Suri Ellerton: In the chat yeah but it's a it's a short short film screening platform it'll be up from the end of this week for about a month, so you'll have a month that you can rewatch it there and then we'll see somewhere else, possibly but that's where we'll be yeah yeah thanks mark.

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Ari Goldstein: Thanks mark and we'll make sure to include that information in a follow up email tomorrow as well.

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Ari Goldstein: Fantastic um there's an interesting question here from Sophia who says you read you had asked mark and siri a question about what they want to transmit and don't want to transmit to future generations, how would you answer that question.

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Irit Felsen: In anxiety and depression in the third generation, and I think it has to do with some of the not positive aspects of the bullet geopolitical social, cultural environment that the third generation has grown.

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Ari Goldstein: Thank you read it, and can you also clarify the name of the children's book you mentioned there's some questions about that.

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Irit Felsen: It is by Beatrice bb and her colleagues, I can send you the exact name afterwards, thank you and also by the way, also for those of you who want, if you Google yet with bb on YouTube.

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Irit Felsen: There ought to be a movie there by someone whose name i'm blanking on right now, a movie about the address bds work.

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Irit Felsen: That shows a lot of these principles, I think, for people with young children to see the way that our micro interactions as we call it our perceived by them and communicate a lot to infants as young as four months old is a very teaching moment it's well worth watching.

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Mark Rosenblatt: I well I i'm i'm trying to imagine, I am trying to write, I think there is a feature version of this short whether or not and i'm working on a few ideas around that.

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Mark Rosenblatt: But i'm working on yeah i'm writing a couple of other feature ideas i'm developing a TV show and i'm writing a plague, and as well, which i've never done before for theatre in London so and I can speak I can't read to wear any of them, but.

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Mark Rosenblatt: that's the outlines that's my that's my headline us.

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Suri Ellerton: And so i've got an apprentice film production company called same name productions and we are developing feature films and a couple of TV series as well.

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Suri Ellerton: And i've got a short film that I am developing as well with another director and yeah there's I mean there's a lot on.

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Suri Ellerton: I can just say one project, I mean none of them are Jewish related but maybe another thing will come up for me at some point but and one film that is about and a woman in England who.

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Irit Felsen: Very good stuff Thank you so much for being with us.

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Suri Ellerton: And thank you to the museum for for hosting us really was very, very special experience for us to be able to be in in a home that feels really appropriate for the bone so thank you.

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Ari Goldstein: pleasure is ours bravo mark rosenblatt sorry eller tunes and the whole team behind gone off on this wonderful short film, which is Oscar qualified.

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Ari Goldstein: At the end of this week, the film will be available for streaming on on the lotto which will send out a link to and starting tomorrow you'll be able to access the recording of this panel discussion on the museum's website and YouTube channel.

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Ari Goldstein: You can join us for upcoming programs that support the museum's work on our website, the links in the zoom chat once again great thanks to all of you and wish everyone good luck.

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